Thursday, February 14, 2008

Valentine Tag Response

Okay, I had been tagged by Trisha too and haven't yet responded, so when I was taged a second time, I knew that I needed to take some action. Marielle's parent's blog about a Valentine Tag was the perfect motivator to get my bottom in gear. So here is our story...
How long have you been together? We began dating Oct. 12, 2001 right after I moved down to Houston to teach school. This year we will have been married 6 years.


First time meeting Eric’s family
How long did you date? We dated for 4 ½ months and then were engaged for 2 ½ months.
How old is he? He is 34 years old.
Who eats more? I think that he does, but sometimes I give him a run for his money.
Who said "I love you" first? Eric did. He said it to me one night about a month after we started dating. When he said it to me, I wasn’t ready to say that to him yet and then about a week later I wrote it to him while we were talking online to each other.
Who is taller? Eric is. He is 6’2”.
Who sings better? Is this a trick question to try and get us to perform solos in church? I had better not comment on this one.
Who is smarter? Eric if it comes to facts, figures, or math. Me when it comes to remembering places, people, and events.
Who does the laundry? I do. I actually enjoy doing the laundry except for the hanging clothes.
Who does the dishes? I do with the help of my trusty dishwasher.
Who sleeps on the right side of the bed? Looking at the bed Eric usually does. Sometimes we switch off and trade.
Who pays the bills? Eric
Who mows the lawn? I usually do, and then Eric edges it.
Who cooks dinner? I do, but we both plan the meals.
Who is more stubborn? It is a tie. I think that we are both stubborn in certain areas.
Who kissed who first? It was a mutual event.
Who asked who out? Here is where the story gets a little tricky. Eric and I were in the same FHE group in our single’s branch here in Houston. We finished working at the Bishop’s Storehouse one night, and unbeknownst to me Eric was waiting around to talk to me. I got to talking to some other people who were there and then actually left first to go home. When I got home I saw that Eric had called. I called and asked him what I could do for him. He asked if I would be interested in going out with him on Friday. I knew that there was an activity that night at Galveston, and asked him if he was planning on going. He said that he had thought about it (secretly he really didn’t want to go). So I asked him if I could catch a ride with him and then maybe we could go out the next night. Eric is overjoyed with the turn of events. Not only was he nervous to see if I would go out with him on a date, but now he has a guarantied two date minimum with me. I was excited to go out with him, because I had wanted to get to know him better since I moved into the ward. We never did go to Galveston that Friday, because it got rained out, so we went to dinner and then ended up talking for what seemed like forever. Saying yes was the best thing that I could have ever done.
Who proposed? Eric did in his living room, and then for the real proposal later that night at the beautiful Houston Temple.


Our engagement photo
Who is more sensitive? I would probably say that I am.
Who has more friends? I would say that I do. Eric is the type of person who doesn’t have a large number of friends, but he has lifetime friends. He is a quiet, strong guy until you get to know him well. When he opens up to you then he is sometimes crazier than I am.
Who is the first to say that they are sorry? We are probably tied on this one.
Who wears the pants in the relationship? Alex

Happy Valentine’s Day, Sweetheart!!!

4 comments:

engstewart said...

Happy Valentine's Day lovebug!!!

It's so great being one half of the "kissingest couple" (a comment our wedding photographer made). You're the best Erika and I am sooooooo blessed to be sealed to you for eternity!

Thanks for the memories- even though my mind doesn't remember all of the details of everything we've ever done I will always remember the joy I felt when we met.

You're a wonderful Mom and truly the best friend anyone could ask for.

Love always,

Eric

XOXO

123 checkoutourfamily said...

How fun to learn some details about your story. How sweet is the entry from Eric. Ahhhh!!!

4Girls4Me said...

Awww... Look at my Little Brother! So sweet Erika - I loved this post. It's fun to hear that my little brother is treating you right. You know we were all thrilled when you & Eric got married. I couldn't ask for a better sister-in-law!! We love you both lots!!

Barbi by the Sea said...

Loved this post also. What fun memories. I still feel such joy and happiness when I see you two together. We are so happy you found each other. We love you both so very much and of course the little man just makes it that much better.